| Before September 22nd, 2022
Parents’ normal family life |
After September 22nd, 2022
Social workers’ so-called “maximum interest of the child” |
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| Telephone | Putting away at night | Self-managed at night. In several cases, at least when she was in Herttoniemi V., she used her telephone as late as 23:00 or 24:00 o’clock. She wouldn’t stop unless we called there and asked friendly personnel to check whether she was sleeping. |
| Sleep | Sleeping at 22:00 | Unknown. In Herttoniemi V., when we called at midnight, she went to sleep around 23:00 or 24:00, or even late. |
| Insomnia | Seldom | Frequent. Or not insomnia at all. However, in order to control her easily, they administer sleeping pills every night. This is inhuman practice because sleeping pills are usually used when necessary but not everyday. They caused her insomnia and poisoned her with sleeping pills every night. |
| Sleeping pill | No sleeping pill | Ketipinor 12.5 mg everyday (prescription: 25mg when necessary). According to information from Perhekoti E.H., she was very well. However, the dose was increased to 25 mg regularly everyday after she visited päiväsairaala for 2 weeks. |
| Eyesight | No problem | Eyesight damaged, She needs to wear glasses from April 2023 (eyeglasses in process). The glasses were ready around May. Exact information was not available for us because they retain all exact information. |
| Library | Very frequent visit, borrowing books up to 41 copies. We encouraged her to borrow around 5 books at a time, but not so many. When she was in Herttoniemi Vaastanotto, she borrowed more than 40 books. | Seldom, no books borrowed (as of May 7th, 2023). It was an extreme situation that she returned all the books but did not borrow one for a long time. That was the result of her being isolated, poisoned, and misled towards a wrong direction of lifestyle. |
| School | Seldom being late and absent. We provided sufficient support for her school going. In difficult times, we escorted her to school. | Frequently late and absent from school. On many occasions, she had to go for appointments made by social workers, police officers, psychologists, psychiatrists, and other unknown persons involved in the child protection industry. Even after she was transferred to Perhekoti E. H., social workers from Lännen Lastensuojelu Lassila 1, Helsinki, still asked for her testimony to prove that these social workers did not do bad things against herself.
In addition to the bad environment for her life, no one supports and instructs her to accept a good education. Her future will be destroyed step-by-step by social workers and workers of Perhekoti, because they do not care about her education, her study and her intellectual development. |
| Academic performance | Excellent | Many exams were skipped. Because she missed many lessons, she had to take special instructions and she got exams at a level lower than other students. Therefore, this can affect her real academic performance even if the scores are the same. |
| Family | Normal family life | No family life is allowed, permitted, and guaranteed. Other family members are prevented from meeting her freely. Family travel is prohibited by social workers. Her freedom is illegally limited. |
| Nutrition | Regularly eating good nutritious foods, vegetables, nuts, snacks during hobby lessons. Strawberries and blueberries are very normal and common when she was home. | Unknown. On one occasion in June 2023, I asked her whether she ate strawberries and blueberries which are very common in Finland, she answered that no, she did not. |
| Friends | School friends, family friends, hobby friends | Lost school friends, lost family friends |
| Depression | No need of medicine | Seronil 30 mg daily. According to information from perhekoti, she was very well. However, the dose was increased to 40 mg after she visited päiväsairaala for 2 weeks. |
| Outdoor and recreation activities | Walking, running, gardening, swinging, cycling, skiing, skating, climbing mountains, swimming, sunbathing, singing, piano playing, | Unknown, mostly in own room playing telephone and using computer. Sometimes going shopping with workers in perhekoti. |
| Abuse of Medicines | No | In mid-April, took 4 days’ medicines in one day |
| Communications | Talking with parents, sister, friends, getting together with big Chinese community | Limited to foster family.
Under our request, the perhekoti promised to fix a call time every week. Later, the perhekoti decided that there won’t be such a time. When they received a supplement to our appeal to the administrative court, they promised to fix a time again on the May 16th, 2023 meeting. |
| Social status | “Small princess” in our family. She was brave and confident, discussing with us equally. | Slave? Or captive? Under misleading, threat, poisoning and control of social workers, colluded with other players of the same interest groups.
She is now very timid and weak when she talks. She always glances right and left, asking for advice from social workers and workers of perhekoti. She makes small decisions relying on others’ attitude. Her confidence has been destroyed. However, the social workers forced her to publicly claim that she is well and she is independent. She is not as well as before she was removed from our family. Nothing better. |
| Parents-daughter relationship | She grew up in our arms, on our shoulders, hands-in-hands | Nothing.
On May 16th, 2023, in order to perform as a theater that the social workers did not destroy the parents-child relationship, social workers forced our child to participate in a meeting, which originally our child was prohibited to attend. At the meeting, social workers forced her to tell us that the social workers did not prevent her from contacting us. However, until today, she could not contact us freely. |
| Health situation | Influenza once a year | 5 times in past 8 months
1 (In M.’s)+2 (in Herttoniemi V.)+2 (in Perhekoti E. H.: more than a week leave, headache) |
| Expenses | Quality housing, foods and clothes within whole family budget | We have to pay 700 euros per month, financial exploitation of family |
| Hobbies | She likes piano, singing, and other activities. We paid about 1000 euros every year. | Because it needs payment, when she was in the Perhekoti E. H., she had to stop her music hobbies. Neither did she ask for us to support financially. |
